Schneur Hayes
Musician
Addiction and Trauma Specialist
Somatic-Inner child-IFS-Meditation
Welcome to my therapy practice, where I specialize in facilitating profound change through deep introspection and conscious awareness of the underlying sources that hold us back. My therapeutic modality is rooted in the belief that true healing involves courageously confronting and embracing our most painful experiences, often referred to as our 'exiles'. By journeying to the root of these challenges, clients not only awaken to their inner resilience and vitality but also gain the self-awareness and energy necessary to navigate life's complexities with newfound clarity. Though the path to personal redemption may be arduous, it ultimately rewards us with a life marked by presence, safety, and purpose. If you're ready to embark on a transformative journey towards healing and empowerment, I am here to support you every step of the way.
Schneur Hayes
MHC M.Ed. ClC
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305-310-0201
schneurh@gmail.com
Inspirational Quotes
"Do not accept anything less than the infinite, for within you, it already dwells."
Chassidus/Pshychology
"Teshuva-Returning is realizing you were never distant, much like you can't be far from something not constrained by space's limits."
Chassidus
"Upon spotting fences lining your path, you're likely ascending higher. Fear not the boundaries, for they grant us the safety to enter the realm of the divine."
"Upon spotting fences lining your path, you're likely ascending higher. Fear not the boundaries, for they grant us the safety to enter the realm of the divine."
Chassidus /Psychology
Knowing that the soul of Moshiach was born on Tisha B'Av encourages us to seek the profound revelations that arise from our sorrows.
Unblock
"Much like wearing soundproof earplugs at an orchestra, unprocessed emotions can veil the magnificent song of existence. Embark on the journey to unblock, heal, and bask in the beautiful melody of eternity.
"Among life's luxuries, one eternal truth stands tall: presence can't be bought, it's your wife's heart's call."
Etz Yosef, Shir Hashirim
תשוקתה של אשה כו' אע"פ שהאשה משתוקקת לתכשיטין ושאר דברים. מ"מ עיקר תשוקתה לבעלה (נזה"ק)
15th of Av
"Are you waiting for life to happen to you—or are you going out and happening to life?"
"Are you waiting for life to happen to you—or are you going out and happening to life?"
"Like clouds that yield rain when hiding the sun, from darkness comes growth. Embrace challenges as chances to find your built-in light."
Chassidus
In life we transition from seeking to feel good to the profound skill of being good at feeling!
*Groundbreaking*
In order to achieve fullest productivity, an individual must often begin with breaking his outer shell or crust (formed by habits, natural dispositions, environmental influences etc.), so as to release the tremendous inner powers and resources, which are infinitely greater than those on the surface, and, more importantly, are infinitely more stable and durable, since they are closer to the individual's self and are anchored in the essence of the soul itself. (letter of the Rebbe 1973).
In this vast world, 50 gates of understanding were crafted, yet we find ourselves naturally accessing only level 49. It's intriguing how the word "sick" holds the numerical value of 49, reminding us of our inherent limitation.
Every illness we encounter stems from our subconscious longing to be connected with our true core. Even if we experience glimpses of healing, we remain love sick, yearning for something more profound—the revelation of the elusive 50th gate.
But fear not, for when our hearts earnestly crave that higher truth, הָרוֹפֵא לְשִׁבוּרֵי לֵב גּוֹ' (Hashem) the Divine healer, mends us with a core revelation.
Distance was created so we can experience return.
"Embrace change, for like a seed breaking its shell to bear fruit, we too must shed false identities to thrive amidst life's challenges. Unveil your core-self, and watch your true potential blossom."
However, there are moments when life presents us with significant challenges, what we refer to as a Nisayon. These challenges exert tremendous force upon us, testing our resilience and resolve. In such moments, we are faced with a crucial choice: succumb or rise.
"The Earth stands as a parable, narrating in humble whispers, through its power of birth, the celestial story of its counterpart 'Malchus' above."
Amidst our darkest hours, we commemorate the spiritual birthday of Moshiach, witnessing the birth of our core redemptive powers. From darkness springs forth the radiant light of hope and transformation
"Similar to blackout curtains blocking the rays of the morning sun, our self-awareness hinders our ability to perceive the divine unity manifested in this world. Open the blinds, and see for yourself."
Chassidus
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